To all friends hovering in front of the siege after earlier we
80, stands to reason that now Laodabuxiao, put children at this age in the liberation of Montreal run. Look around, there are many peers marry and have children, may also have held back most, uh, mention marriage to twitch!
Why are we Sipilailian pulling the tail of youth do not get married? Let me think.
I think, first of all, attitude problems.
in the past, marriage is simply not a thing, one to find a similar age to do, and then everyone was poor, simply agile, and no one cares about love and more love less. But now that human evolution was more seriously their own children, and what the character, family background, appearance, work, Pok calendar, future, not even a hobby not as refined, and repeated studies, in depth, carefully compared , toss and turn … … seeing the complexity of the problem put simply, they magnify the problem! The more confused the more refined results, which can not be a marriage to end!
marriage thing, the two join as a partner to live, had more than a simple matter, which makes us hard to manufacture than the Space Shuttle is also wordy. Chase The reason I think the purpose of marriage is not simply, and always wanted to get some through marriage, the other added value. For example, a house, car, and the future the good old days. When you want a piece of paper to get a lifetime thing, is quite a bit.
mentality there is a problem, that is the fear of marriage.
our generation, be regarded as honey jar grew up, I did not experience the war did not survive the hungry, their parents tend to baby the old feel is still small, how to get married then? Marriage means having children, she was still a child, how it came out the next generation? Now young women are very narcissistic, youth took on such a mundane really reluctant to let go, boys the same age is less mature, when suddenly her son used to let him Dangdie, all of a sudden really adapt.
mouth well-intentioned parents, Ku said for our lifetime of happiness, can be heard went to the head, and if the marriage would really put
Also, modern apathy and decay of love let us hesitate to panic. The most immediate consequence is that many people no longer believe in love, do not believe in promises, do not even believe in themselves. I could not even change of heart that they will not be allowed to have insurance, how to ask someone else? Furniture around children of divorce affair full of betrayal and betrayal focus cones, my marriage can be spared? This Siege which in the end, OK? One may enter into a second-hand, is too cautious.
Second, is a human problem, which is the key.
marry the people do not want to marry, we do not want to marry marry’s. Fanjian people are animals, although not necessarily to get something good, but is obsessed with, please flattering the people into the heart of that supreme people, people do not necessarily appreciate. Can for their side of the devotee is quietly turning a blind eye, holding you in love with you, true to myself when the emperor, and other conditions, even the best feel wronged their own, not always so willing to She would look on your luck.
there are some people who neither want to marry people who do not want to marry, the entire service area is not a love, be love, forgotten corner, hey … if you Kangde Zhu single pressure, then, or Ningquewulan it, abuse it, once such a person, it also received a Shoubu Zhu.
marriage no matter how simple, is two people, and I looked around a person, whom end ah? You do not tell me to mention each other on this matter five years ago I came into contact with, professional way to go. Intimate that the white prick, with tinted glasses to buy cabbage, may all of a green Baji, purple does not slip autumn.
Finally, the question of money. The problem, said big is big, small is small.
humble 伕 wife misery, these words certainly justified. Money is certainly a lot of humble young lovers of the biggest obstacles. Lang affectionate concubine interested, staff in place, like the Young Pioneers mentality always ready, and they love devotion, anxious to have children immediately take a nest, the nest where it can find it? That the white house and say it means money. Money is no room, even if rents have money, right? Say that marriage is the tomb of love, not the house you have no access to even the grave! A woman’s sense of security sweep is the so-called sense, when in love is a reliable shoulder warm embrace, can a married woman to change the flag flew from the more romantic Zhang realism, how warm was the embrace of what is now not as generous It reinforced cement Ji subdivision.
ago in rural areas, there can be a happy occasion of tile-roofed house; then we parent’s generation, welfare housing units as long as there is marriage; now, a large Pak popular well-off people, we have actually even fail to realize the. A large Pak Ji graduated 20 good, and there is a fixed unit of stable income quite good, no matter how good the unit can not get a free house ah. How the house did not get married? If the parents a little healthy, you have to buy the house on a car that good fortune, the number of students on a large Pok Pok east of the money is borrowed to fight the West, Graduation want to buy a house? Also the first five-year 6-year debt then. Of course, there are certainly starting from scratch, struggling talent, but when he scratch, you would not taught him how to determine it? If you have these eyes that you so take a look at the way many men abandoned after unsuccessful novel drama Zaokang wife.
addition to the house, the marriage place more money to go and what deposit, bride price, rings, wedding Zhao … … everything a lot. Said ring it, do not know who invented, anyway, get married you have to have! From courtship, engagement, marriage, which had a step missing ring? Can not be a general ring, was a symbol of love is forever
when you marry the whole copper iron even with the plastic straw, a small romantic feelings that a woman will not care one up, you can get married so the total can not fool people, right? You have the heart to let the bride with aluminum ring with you into a rented house? This point can fart big stone I do not know why it so valuable, definitely make a small self-reliant young people So, ah, the good vision of marriage let Ji block of cement and stone ruin the future.
course, there are opened to see this set of primary care, four years married to mouth is not to mention buy a diamond ring, no wedding Zhao, not feast, the children of a new You save trouble, a woman may have Ji also want to save trouble ah? Anyway, the vast majority of women is not enough, Zhao wedding must take, but also good film, straining to beat! Allure pour States does not photograph I do not disband!
Every family has its cupboard, get married have to do this vary. After all, is a big deal, although experience is still light after 80, but we also know how to write Liangzi responsibility. Hope we Duo Zhenzhong, will not regret it!
wish you good luck ~ ~ ~
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